James Van Der Beek, an actor who was a part of every Millennial's childhood, passed away at the age of 48. He died with dignity. One thing we can learn from his dying is to proclaim the whole truth. Don't hold back.
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I want to talk about James Van Der Beek, who passed away. To every millennial who's listening now, he was an important part of our childhood, star of, I was gonna say Party of Five, Dawson's Creek, and then Varsity Blues as well. He was 48 years old and died from colon cancer. He had six kids, beautiful family, kids like over the top cute. And he wrote on Instagram relatively recently, just posted this stunning picture of his family. And he said, being a father has been the most treasured honor of my life.
Thank you to my kids for reteaching me how to live, laugh, love, and show up in my own life and in the world. And thank you to my superhero of a wife who constantly exceeds the boundaries of what I thought was human capacity. I love you with all of my heart. Being a father has been the most treasured honor of my life at Scream. His family shared pictures of his final days here on earth. This very handsome man, weak, frail, skin and bones, in a wheelchair, out in nature, outside, looking at the sunset.
Here's a note from a friend. Spending these final days with you has been a true gift from God. I've never been so present in my life. When you know time is sacred, you don't waste a single breath. How can we live like this every day? How can we live treating life sacred?
You don't rush. You don't scroll. You don't worry about tomorrow. You sit. You listen. You hold hands.
You watch the sky change colors and let it change you, too. In these past days, you taught me more about being present than any book ever could. You showed me what it looks like to trust God's plan, even when it breaks your heart, especially when it breaks your heart. You are a gift, an incredible husband, an extraordinary dad. The way you showed up for your wife and your children, steady, strong, devoted, was a blessing to witness. It has been an honor to stand by your family in these sacred moments.
It's pretty incredible how someone can fight so hard for so long, travel the world battling so much, and somehow still look so handsome doing it. You've given this world so many gifts. Your presence was a bright light in my life and in so many others. And maybe the lesson you leave us with is this. The present moment is everything. Love the people in front of you.
Say the words. Watch the sunset. Trust God even when you don't understand. Very nice. Katie Holmes, who's, again, to millennials, indistinguishable, the two of them. together, but she wrote out this really nice note to him and hand -written and then took a picture of it, which is a nice way to present the note.
At the end of it, she said, life is art, creating a beautiful marriage, six loving children, the journey of a hero.
It's great.
Someone else said, I think I can finally see the beauty in death. It's sad, but it's also one of the few things that forces us to be fully present and accept our mortality. And suddenly, everything except the people you love matters less. Maybe we're never more human than when we're dying. Okay, so this is usually the section of the podcast where I talk about what's broken in the situation and that's maybe a bit, it's not quite right, not broken.
I just want to offer this as an encouragement. There are some videos that are making the rounds of James Van Der Beek and I want to use these to encourage you as well and not wait till the end of your life to have boldness. And I think James Van Der Beek in these videos, although beautiful and well -presented, it's missing that last little, no, I didn't say little, that last most important bit of truth. So I'm gonna play this video, it's three minutes, sit back and enjoy it for what it is and how it's presented. And then we can talk about what's missing.
Today's my birthday and it has been the hardest year of my life. And I wanted to share something that I learned with y 'all. When I was younger, I used to define myself as an actor, right? Which was never really all that fulfilling. And then I became a husband, and that was much better. And then I became a father, and that was the ultimate.
I could define myself then as a loving, capable, strong, supportive husband, father, provider, steward of the land that we're so lucky to live on. And for a long time, that felt like a really good definition to the question, who am I? What am I? And then this year, to look my own mortality in the eye.
Quick timeout. Last time I'll stop. Super important to make sure you find your real identity as soon as possible. And it's not in any of these things. Beautiful things. Some people identify themselves as things that are not good, but even if people identify themselves as things that are great, but it's not your truest identity.
And when you get to the end of your life, you realize that when you lose your body, you lose your ability. Maybe you identify yourself as a runner. Okay. What if you lose your legs? What if your legs don't work anymore? Who are you now?
Not a runner. What are you? Well, I'm a radio show host. You lose your job. Now what are you? Oh, it better be something that's unbreakable, which actually was the last segment of our last TV special we did about building your house on a rock.
James Van Der Beek had to confront this issue.
I had to come nose to nose with death. And all of those definitions that I cared so deeply about were stripped from me. I was away for treatment, so I could no longer be a husband that was helpful to my wife. I could no longer be a father who could pick up his kids and put them to bed and be there for them. I could not be a provider because that wasn't working. I couldn't even be a steward of the land because at times I was too weak to prune all the trees during the window that you're supposed to prune them. And so I was faced with the question, if I am just a too skinny, weak guy alone in an apartment with cancer, what am I?
I meditated and the answer came through. I am worthy of God's love simply because I exist. And if I'm worthy of God's love, shouldn't I also be worthy of my own? And the same is true for you. And as I move through this healing portal toward recovery, I wanted to share that with you because I think that revelation that came to me was due in no small part to all the prayers and the love that had been directed toward me. So I offer that to you, however it sits in your consciousness, however it resonates, run with it.
And if the word God trips you up, I certainly don't know. I can't claim to know what God is or explain God. My efforts to connect to God are an ongoing process that is a constant unfolding mystery to me. But if it's a trigger, it feels too religious, you can take the word God out and your mantra can simply be, I am worthy of love because you are. Thank you for the loving prayers, everyone.
So close.
Let's go to the Bible. Maybe my frustration is a strong word. It's that, oh, it's like great. And then it's, well, however you define God, you're like, oh man, just according to the Bible, we are not worthy of love. We're horrible sinners. who are worthy only of God's wrath.
Ephesians 2 .1 says we are dead in trespasses and sins. We are spiritually dead and unable to merit God's favor. It is God who demonstrates his love by choosing to save us. Ephesians 1 .5, in love he predestined us for adoption as sons through Christ Jesus. Our righteousness, whatever we think we do, is filthy rags. But Jesus
died to save us from hell. And now if you make Jesus Lord of your life, you can come before God and spend eternity in heaven. Or however you think is best to divide, right? I mean like Hebrews 10, 19. Are you with me with that last little quip that I threw there? It's either this or not that.
It can't be everything. It can't be this very specific thing. And then however you feel good about a thing, that I'm saying, but want to take the words, but use very different meanings for the words, like not a Hebrews 10, nine, therefore brothers, since we have confidence to enter the holy places by the blood of Jesus, by the new and the holy places, by the new and living way that he opened for us through the curtain, that is through his flesh. I love in the Bible, how when Jesus died on the cross, the curtain at the temple was torn from the top. So it was not by human hands from the bottom, but it was torn from the top. It was the curtain that separated.
in the tabernacle or in the temple, from everyone else, from the most holy place, ripped. And since we have a great priest over the house of God, let us draw near with a true heart and full assurance of faith with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water. Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering for he who promised is faithful. In Hebrews 4 .16, let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need. This is scripture. My encouragement for you, for all of us.
is to go all the way because people desperately need to hear it. They need to hear the truth, not half the truth and then new age mumbo jumbo, not 90 % of the truth and then a cop out of or whatever else you think people need to hear all of the truth.
It also sounds like this diagnosis helped you find some sort of new perspective on faith.
Before cancer, God was something I tried to fit into my life as much as possible.
After cancer, I feel like a connection to God, whatever that is, is kind of the whole point of this exercise on this planet. He's right. He's right. Glorifying God, but exactly who we know him to be from the Bible is the point of life on this planet. Go all the way with the truth. Don't hold back.
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