There is a secular reason why people don't keep their resolutions. And then there's the real reason.
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Good morning and Happy New Year. Welcome to Politics by Faith, brought to you by the Patriot & Gold Group and the Public Square App. I can think of no better place to start the new year than from the beginning. So for a while here we're going to do some analysis from Martin Lloyd-Jones from the book of Genesis. The book is called The Gospel in Genesis. We will do that for a while, but before we do that I feel like we need to do an obligatory New Year's resolution segment First it is good to make resolutions. I've noticed myself falling into a bit of cynicism of who needs them anyway No, that's good. You should do it Lamentations 322 says the steadfast love of the Lord never ceases his mercies never come to an end. They are new every morning. So his mercies are new every single morning. And I think we should also start fresh with who we resolve to be and should be every morning. What's wrong with starting fresh?
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And not just on January 1st or just on Mondays. Anybody ever like that? I'm gonna start my diet on Monday. No, every morning. You can start fresh every morning. You can examine yourself every morning. I love Lamentations 3.40, it says, let us examine our ways and test them and let us return to the Lord. Let us examine our ways. Lord Jones always says, examine yourself in his sermons. So it's good to make resolutions all the time and you can make one on January 1st too. Samuel Johnson, I love this quote. 1764 or so, he said this, he wrote in his diary, right in the beginning of a new year. He said, when I look back on resolutions of improvement, which have year after year been made and broken, this is 300 years of people making resolutions and breaking them, either by negligence, forgetfulness, vicious idleness, casual interruption, or morbid infirmity, when I find that so much of my life has been stolen unprofitably away, and that I can describe by retrospection scarcely a few single days properly and vigorously employed. Oh, gosh, I love that. He looks back on his year, this last year, and he's like, like, maybe a couple days I lived the right way. Maybe a couple days I did my resolution like I wanted to. Why do I yet try to resolve again? I try because reformation is necessary and despair is criminal. So don't fall into despair or cynicism. Make a resolution. It's good. Now the secular reason why it's so hard to make resolutions and keep them comes from the book Atomic Habits by James Clear. It is once again the number one top selling book on all of Amazon, all categories. It's five years old. This has been the number one selling book for five years. Like what in the world? It's good, it's a good book. It's all secular, of course, but that's fine. So the reason why, from a secular perspective, people don't keep their resolutions, is because people make outcome-based resolutions. I want to lose 20 pounds. And it's never going to happen. So people finally realize that's not going to happen, so they're like, oh, okay, I'm going to make process-based resolutions. So instead of I'm going to lose 20 pounds, it's I'm going to work out five days a week. It's still not good enough. You got to keep going, you got to keep digging. So the secret sauce is making identity-based goals. I'm the kind of person who doesn't miss a workout. If you make a new identity for yourself, exercise is a priority for me. It's just who I am, what I do, who I am.
Then the process will happen, and then of course the outcomes are pretty much guaranteed. And you can fall back on it when you're in doubt. So what would a person who never misses a workout do right now? Would that person sit on the couch and eat ice cream, or would that person go and work out? So it's just about changing your identity. There's nothing new about this. Epictetus, 2,000 years ago, said, first say to yourself what you would be, and then do what you have to do. So who do I want to be, and then go do that thing. So James Clare didn't invent it, but he wrote a good book about it. So that's all secular stuff, fine. Talk all about that on my radio show. I can't, Bible thump, nonstop my radio show, which by the way, this week was really exciting news about the radio and TV show. Can't wait to share it. But, be in a few days. I can thump the Bible a lot, but I gotta weave it. This is where we can really thump the Bible. The real reason why people don't keep their resolutions is, well first of all, they may not be God's will, that resolution. But I don't know, does God not want me to be healthy? Does God not want me to lose 20 pounds I mean free probably does right, but that's one reason More likely the reason we can't keep our resolutions because we can't do anything ourselves Can't do anything on our own and all these resolutions rely on our own strength. We're very weak Psalm 121 to says may my help comes from the Lord the maker of heaven and earth. So our resolutions have to be based on God and God's strength. That's where we get all of our strength.
So it's always a good goal to first focus on whatever is lovely. I like that word. The word's growing on me. Lovely. Whatever's true, whatever's honorable, whatever's just, whatever's pure, whatever's lovely, whatever's commendable, whatever's excellent, whatever's worthy of praise, think about these things. So that's what we need to do, we need to think, and that answers everything, that's so all-encompassing. So that answers all your questions about what you should be spending your time doing, looking at, listening to, watching, engaging in, being around, like that's it, it's all of them. True, honorable, just, pure, lovely, commendable, excellent, worthy of praise, those, that's it, those things. Focus on those. That's the great resolution. You've got to focus only on those things. And then, of course, the outcome is the fruits of the Spirit. I am a Christian. Jesus is the Lord of my life. That's my identity. Therefore, my process is I will focus on things that are lovely, true, honorable, just, etc. And then the outcome will be the fruits of the Spirit. It's not about doing more, although you should read the Bible, that's God's word. But it's not about doing more, it's your identity. I'm a Christian, Jesus is Lord of my life, that's my identity. Okay, well, what does that person do? And the rest will follow. And God wants this. So this is the resolution he'll help you with. Mike Slater dot locals dot com is the website and we have a night before commercial free and transcript all on the website Mike Slater dot locals dot commercial free and transcript all on the website Mike Slater dot locals dot com and tomorrow we'll pick up with Martin Lloyd-Jones the gospel in Genesis.