The pun was not originally intended in the title here, but let's go with it. The Harrison Butker "controversy" is fun because it's not really a controversy: everyone knows he's right. It just depends on how much you want to resist it. Of course women can work, no one is saying otherwise. But let's not deny the obvious either.
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We did a TV show the other day, and we put it on the podcast here about aliens. It sounds all super weird. I didn't want to do it, but the producer's like, no, we should do it, I don't want to, he's like, we're doing it, and I'm like, all right, fine, I guess. But it ended with Pastor, and I actually really enjoyed it,
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it ended with Doug Wilson, and that was awesome. And he talked about our cosmology, and how when we think of aliens today, we have this foundational cosmology of sci-fi. So we think of like E.T. and green heads and little green men, that's what we think of aliens.
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But before science fiction, we had a cosmology of the Bible. And then when you see unknown things, we think demons and spirits of the air and stuff that's in the Bible. Fascinating conversation. So I know maybe you skipped over that interview or that segment, that episode from the other day because you're like, aliens, I don't care
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uh... i don't either really here but if you just get to the end and listen to uh... pastor wilson uh... is is really interesting if nothing else are going to be a a final thought for now
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on the harrison butker made up controversy you're caught up in this now right we played a couple days ago if you wanna go back to previous episode but he was that he is a Catholic, he's the kicker of the Chiefs, like one of the best kicker in the last 25 years, and he gave a speech, a commencement address
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at a conservative Catholic college, and said, hey, women, don't be afraid to become a wife and a mother. It's the most wonderful thing. Let me say some wonderful things about my wife, and that may be a wonderful decision
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that you are encouraged not to make or pressured not to make that may actually make you really happy. Or not, or just do whatever you want. That's the other message. But it spoke against our culture in a really powerful way. For the first time in our history,
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50% of women over the age of 30 don't have children. 50% of women over the age of 30 don't have children. It's the first time that's ever happened in our country. And this has been, obviously, trending in this direction. In 1980, 24% of women over the age of 30 didn't have children.
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In 1990, it was 37%. And now it's over 50%, I suppose, continuing in that direction. So I think this is an interesting thing. Think about it. In another 10, 20 years, will it be 70% of women over the age of 30
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don't have kids? Then what? I'm interested in this topic for a few reasons. One reason is because it's not that controversial or it shouldn't be. Here we have a Catholic person espousing Catholic doctrine at a Catholic college. Okay, so what's the controversy?
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But even more than that, it's good to get married and have kids. And it's good to be a mom and raise those kids. Everyone knows this. Everyone knows it. Everyone may not want to admit it, but everyone knows it. Back in 2019, the Daily Mail wrote an article about the writer of Sex and the City.
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Candace Bushnell is her name. She was 60 at the time. The headline is, Sex and the City writer Candace Bushnell admits she regrets choosing a career over having children as she is now, quote, truly alone. Ms. Bushnell divorced her husband, ballet dancer, blah,
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in 2012 and said it made her realize the importance of starting a family. The former sex columnist, who's now worth 18 million pounds, said, When I was in my 30s and 40s, I didn't think about it. Kids. Then when I got divorced and I was in my 50s, I started to see the impact of not having
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children and of truly being alone. I do see that people with children have an anchor in a way that people who have no kids do not. The writer who has now returned to New York lives between her partner's penthouse suite on the Upper East Side and a house in the Hamptons. Wait a second, how is she not happy with all of her money?
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It's 18, I don't know what that is,
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like $25 million or something, all of her money and a penthouse apartment and a house in the Hamptons. I thought that's everything you could possibly want. Man, I wonder how many young girls who watched Sex and the City growing up in formative years had their lives sent on a much different path, a much worse path. And how many young women are living the consequences of that woman's influence on them.
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Be careful the messages that you let into your children's hearts. Be careful the messages that you let your children hear. Now I don't want to fall into the trap of anyone thinking that if you don't have kids, if you're not married yet or ever, that your life is worthless, and what's the point of even living anyway? That's not it.
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That's not biblical. Paul wrote 1 Corinthians 7. He says, But I say to the unmarried and to the widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am. It's good. It's good to be unmarried and it's good, but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry, for it's better to be married than to burn with passion. So it says it's
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good to be unmarried and a widow. It's believed that Paul was married at one point. We can infer, perhaps, because he was a member of the Sanhedrin. And at one time in Scripture he says, and I cast my vote. But you can only be a member and cast your vote if you were married. Maybe he got some exemption. I don't know.
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But we don't know what happened to his wife. We know he was single at this point. And he loved being single because he could party! He could sleep around with everyone at all the clubs. His singleness was good so he could dedicate more of his life and time to God. You are still made in the image of God if you're single.
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And you can still live a fulfilling life, of course. And you can still serve and be served by a community. Just the same if you're single or if you don't have kids it's all about living a holy life which leads to John 4 this is the story of the Sumerian woman the woman with many husbands who does sleep around and she's at the well and then Jesus says whoever drinks of the water that I will give them will never
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be thirsty forever and I love this gem from Charles Spurgeon. The believer is not the man whose days are weary for lack of comfort and whose nights are long on account of the absence of heart-cheering thought. No, the believer finds in faith such a spring of joy, such a fountain of consolation that he is content and happy. Put him in a dungeon and he will find good company.
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Place him in a barren wilderness, and he will eat the bread of heaven. Drive him away from friendship, and he will meet the friend who sticks closer than a brother. Destroy all his shade, and he will find shadow beneath the rock of ages. Erode the foundation of his earthly hopes, and his heart will still be fixed, trusting in the Lord. The heart is as insatiable as the grave, until Jesus enters it. And then it becomes a cup full to overflowing.
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Life is not all about kids. It's not all about being married. It's all about glorifying God. Having kids and getting married is a great way to do that. It's not the only way. Living the sex-in-the-city lifestyle does none of those things.
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It doesn't result in a husband, biblical marriage, it doesn't result in having kids, and it doesn't result in glorifying God. Listen, there's so much comfort in the fact that there's just a blueprint to life. In church this weekend, we sang the song, Ancient, Ancient Words. Ancient words? Holy words, long preserved for our walk in this world,
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that resound with God's own heart, O let the ancient words impart! Holy words of our faith, handed down to this age, came to us through sacrifice, O heed the faithful words of Christ! Words of life, words of hope, give us strength, help us cope! In this world, wherever we roam, ancient words will guide us home. Ancient words ever true, changing me and changing you.
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We have come with open hearts. Oh, let the ancient words impart. How much heartache can be avoided if we just follow the playbook? Mike Slater dot locals dot com. Mike Slater dot locals dot com. Transcript and commercial free on the website, Mike Slater dot locals dot com.