A famous line from Ben Sharpio is "Facts don't care about your feelings." I disagree. I wish it were that easy to convince people of the truth. If only we could just share the facts and voila, we win. The reality is; feelings matter. And this is fine. We can use emotion to help people see the truth just as much as they can use feelings to convince people of lies. We just can't get frustrated.
I don't know if this message will be well received, but I'll go for it anyway. This is my defense mechanism. Maybe it's just that. Maybe I'm off. I don't know.
I do know that the Bible says you have to forgive people because God forgave you. And whenever I think of someone who did something wrong or that annoys me or whatever, I just think of all the mistakes I've ever made and it deflates a lot of anger. Now, of course, you shouldn't be passive and get walked over and you need standards and expectations and righteous anger is good, all that. But whenever someone's rude or something, I just think of all the times I've been rude or just as thoughtless or just as ignorant or, that's funny, all the things I just listed there are all still kind of passive things like well I would never be actively cruel but sure maybe I've been accidentally rude in the past I'll admit I've been worse than surely. So let's have mercy on other people. No, but their sin is way worse. Why do I bring this up? A dominant theme on the show this week has been how do I talk to people? Started with a gentleman I believe on Tuesday. I said how do I
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spread the word? How do I start conversations with people about politics. And then we had a call in today that say, okay, I get it's later everything we've been talking about this week, but how do you talk to someone who is tied up with this political stuff so emotionally? If someone only believes emotional arguments, if it's true, as you've been saying, that this is the Barbie election.
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Actually, let me pull this clip up real quick. One second, I'm going to press pause. I'll be right back. All right, here it is. Here's a clip from the Barbie movie. This is President Barbie talking to Journalist Barbie.
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Everybody, turn to the Barbie next to you. Tell her how much you love her. Compliment her. Reporter Barbie, you can ask me any question you want.
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How come you're so amazing?
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No comment.
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Ah! No, seriously, no comment. Ah, I love you guys.
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Isn't that way too spot on? Way too spot on. And then the newspaper spins in the movie, you know, the newspaper spins on the screen and it says, journalist Barbie wins Nobel Prize for that interview. And that's it. That's like way too close to our election where if the media does ever ask a question
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to Kamala, they say, why are you so wonderful? And she says, no comment. And they laugh and they think it's great. So that's an emotional connection that people have to Kamala right now. There's no substance of course. So how do you talk to someone about this who's so emotionally tied up? And my argument is to use emotion. Ben Shapiro, one of his famous lines, Ben Shapiro is
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facts don't care about your feelings. Maybe we wish this weren't the case, but it is. We feel a lot, human beings feel, and we feel first. It's the way it is. I wish we could just deal with hard facts, but that's not how people operate. In fact, we go to great lengths to avoid difficult conversations
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and difficult facts because they make us feel bad. People will do remarkable things in order to avoid facts. Fascinating part of human nature. Just at the very least the way we distract ourselves every waking second of in-between time or potential boredom time all the way to what we do as we're falling asleep. We will fill the time with something to distract us. TV show, Fruit Ninja, whatever, Farmville. We try to fill all the time because the last thing we want
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is to be with our thoughts and to be with our conscience. The last thing we want is to deal with facts. I'd rather just feel, even if the feeling is to numb out. So feelings matter. I think conservatives for a long time have ignored people's feelings at our own peril. If you're talking to
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someone who's had an abortion and they have obviously an emotional connection to this issue and you're trying to change their mind, you can throw as many statistics as you want at them. It's not going to do anything. So my advice would be if you're talking to someone who has an emotional connection to something. Meet their emotion. Maybe even affirm it. I think affirm it because emotions are real. Feelings are real. They may be irrational or whatever but there's no real. They still have the feeling. And
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then use emotion. So once you're connected to that, then use emotion and facts to get them to a place of truth or at least in that direction. Give you an example. Rachel Marin, her daughter, was, or excuse me, no, Rachel was raped and murdered by an illegal alien from El Salvador, from Maryland.
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Her mom spoke at a rally, not a rally, an event that Trump had at the border yesterday. And she spoke for four minutes and it was amazing. Incredibly emotional. It's not emotional manipulation by the way because it's real. And she told her story and then talked about how we need to change our policy at the border. If you... should I play that here? I think I should play it. I'm not going to ask you to go do extra work.
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Let's just play it right here so we can be on the same page. And think of this story and think about if you're talking to someone about the border, how you can use the reality of it, the reality of this, the facts of this, and also the emotion of this to change their minds.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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Take care of yourself.
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Absolutely.
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We don't want to have to, we don't want it to happen to other people.
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That's all. No. Yeah.
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Hi, I was just thanking President Trump for the invitation to come and to share Rachel's story. Rachel was 37 years old. She had five children. She worked, she owned a small business, she worked very hard to support her family, and the trail that Rachel ran daily was a trail that we as a family would walk over the last 25 years that we've lived in Maryland. It's a very safe, small trail, very public, very open. Moms with baby carriages go down this trail. It's very safe. I was in Kentucky. We had a grandbaby
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that had passed away. When I got a phone call from my son, and he said, Mom, there's somebody here that would like to speak to you. And when I said hello, the person on the other Mrs. Moran, this is Detective so-and-so. I'm the lead detective on this case. There's no easy way to tell you this. But we found your daughter's body. And if they find the body, you know that she was brutally beaten, raped, and then stuffed into a drain pipe. from the border. And because of this open border, we've had not just my daughter, but
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we've actually had two in the same county that we're from where illegal immigrants have come in and have caused rape and murder of our citizens. And I don't, I really, the reason why I came here today and I accepted the invitation is because I really want our words to be heard and I really want you to take to heart what we're saying. We're not here for a political stand, although we are. We're here because we're losing our moms, our daughters, our children to criminals and And that shouldn't happen.
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We should be taking care of our country, our people. And the only way I believe that's going to happen is if President Trump is reelected as president and we close up this border and we put policies back into place that were there before instead of this open border thing. We're just going to, we're going to end up being a third world country if it continues this way. And I hope, truly I hope that you will just take my words to heart because it's devastating to lose a
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child but even more devastating when you see the pictures or you see the body and you really understand what's happened to that person. So please take to heart, this is a very, very important issue. And it's one that's either going to make or break our country. It's not so much, it's about America. It's about Americans. It's about us taking and protecting ourselves
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and looking out for each other. It's about protecting our families.
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So, thank you.
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Thank you, Helen.
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So good. Thank you.
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Thank you very much.
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That's an incredibly emotional story, obviously, and true. And you can use that to help people see the truth. Don't ignore the emotions of that. Let's use it. I totally understand the frustration. Why don't these idiots just get it?
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I've been that idiot many times. I remember before I was a Christian on the radio in Tennessee. I was taking the, I thought I was very smart, I was taking, I was very clever, I took the libertarian approach to gay marriage, which is that the state should have nothing to do with marriage at all. And I can re-articulate that argument, but I was very wrong, I was wrong.
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I remember people calling in and telling me I was wrong, but I was certain I was right. So I'm sure a lot of people were frustrated with me as well. Just to turn it to the Bible here, the frustration you feel at other people, these other idiots out there, it's nothing compared to God and the patience that he's had with you. Numbers 14 11, Then the Lord said to Moses, How long will these people reject me? How long will they not believe me? With all
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the signs which I performed among them, I will strike them with the pestilence and disinherit them, and I will make of you a nation greater and mightier than they." God wasn't even talking to the people of Israel anymore. They so ignored him that he's like, why? So he spoke directly to Moses and then Moses made a good counter offer. But I like this line he said, it's from Moses, is, Now I pray, let the power of my Lord be great, just as you have spoken, saying,
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The Lord is long-suffering and abundant in mercy, forgiving iniquity and transgression. Pardon the iniquity of this people, I pray, according to the greatness of your mercy, just as you have forgiven the people from Egypt even until now. Let's forgive the people who are blind to their sins and blind to the facts of political realities. Because we've been there too. In many cases, we still are.
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We're not right about everything. I'm not right about everything. We need to give mercy and be long-suffering. Of course, that doesn't mean stop
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trying to spread the word.
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Stop trying to convince people what is true, what you believe to be true. Never stop that. But let's not just get frustrated about people's ignorance. Just imagine how God felt about you before you were born again. 2 Peter 3 9, He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. Mike Slater at Outlocals.com. Transcript on the website. You get an email every day when we publish this, actually before we publish it, on every other podcast platform. And transcript, oh, no commercials. They're the benefit. They're the benefit. If you go to the website, mikeslater.locals.com.